5 Things Not To Do When Trying to Get Your Ex Back
Most guys do exactly the wrong things immediately when they break up with their girlfriend. Women are run by emotional triggers and the way you act and the way she perceives you are the main factors that will motivate if you have a chance or not. Interestingly enough, some of the ways guys will normally act (what is instinct to you) are actually really harmful and shatter any hope of you getting her back. That’s why I’m writing this to explain exactly what not to do… and if you are doing these things, stop!
5. Act Depressed
It is natural to feel depressed after the breakup (actually you probably feel awful) but you can’t let this show!!! Why? If you are really depressed, is that very attractive? If you were a girl, would you rather go out on the town with a new guy, or get back with your depressed old boyfriend? You see where this is going. Whatever you do, even if you have to fake it, don’t let her see you depressed!!
4. Avoid Her Totally
This is one way to deal with the situation, but I will tell you why this won’t work. She knows you are avoiding her, and she knows you well enough to know that you doing this because you broke up. Don’t avoid her because this is what all the other lame and pathetic guys did in the past as well. This is basically the same as acting depressed.
3. Reason with Her
You may have tried this, but you will realize soon enough that it just doesn’t work! There is a fundamental difference between guys and girls–Guys think RATIONALLY and girls think EMOTIONALLY. There is no way in the world you can reason her back into a relationship with you. In fact, it will turn her off because no matter what you say, you come across as needy. You need to play on her emotions in order to win her back.
2. Call Her or Text your Ex
What to say? We’ll until you learn exactly what to say (use my guides and recommendations) DON’T say anything at all unless she contacts you. You have to be non-needy because this is a very hard time. Needyness screams loser and will be very annoying to her. This will push her away and hurt any further chances.
1. Whatever you do, don’t do NOTHING!
There are many thing you shouldn’t do but one thing is for shure–You shouldn’t do nothing!! You have to make a decision for yourself, do I want to get back together with my ex? If so and you are ready, there is good news. You CAN get your ex back, but only with a plan. Most of my advice comes from my personal relationships, people that I’ve talked to (hundreds of other guys) and from the book that I used to guide me through getting my ex back, the Ex2 system. I couldn’t have done it without it. If you want to check it out, heres the link:
Good Luck!
