I’ll tell you why–because there are millions of girls out there. Don’t believe me? Go out of your normal area, hit the beach, start making friends. I guarantee you’ll start seeing out of the box. Every once in a while, a special one comes around that you’re going to want to keep. You gotta learn how to keep that girl under your wing and not leave. I try and help people do exactly that.
I’ll tell you why–because there are millions of girls out there. Don’t believe me? Go out of your normal area, hit the beach, start making friends. I guarantee you’ll start seeing out of the box. Every once in a while, a special one comes around that you’re going to want to keep. You gotta learn how to keep that girl under your wing and not leave. I try and help people do exactly that.
(At times you let that one slip away. DON’T LET THAT HAPPEN TO YOU!!! Learn how to keep her.
What girls like and what you should give them are two totally different things. What girls really like are glittery gold, to be treated like a princess, romantic nights, nice clothes, expensive drinks. Not every girl is like this (because sometimes you’ll meet that one that just likes to wear jeans, chill with the guys, hit up mcdonalds), but in the end, she’ll grow up and deep down she wants to be a woman with nice things.
But if you supplicated her and provided her with every wish, would you win? It’s a paradox. You won’t win. Everyone wants what they can’t have. So what do you give them?
You give them exactly what you want them to have which is… whatever you want! If she deserves a nice dinner, give it to her! But only if she deserves it. She treats you like shit? Don’t buy her gifts! Don’t give her more attention than she deserves.
When you give her what she deserves, and give her only what you want, she will begin to be trained just like you want her to be. And she will begin to accept what you give her as normal and not EXPECT to be taken out every night. Once you get her where you want, you will be respected and in a much better position. Don’t just give her what she wants, give her what you want to give her.
What girls like and what you should give them are two totally different things. What girls really like are glittery gold, to be treated like a princess, romantic nights, nice clothes, expensive drinks. Not every girl is like this (because sometimes you’ll meet that one that just likes to wear jeans, chill with the guys, hit up mcdonalds), but in the end, she’ll grow up and deep down she wants to be a woman with nice things.
But if you supplicated her and provided her with every wish, would you win? It’s a paradox. You won’t win. Everyone wants what they can’t have. So what do you give them?
You give them exactly what you want them to have which is… whatever you want! If she deserves a nice dinner, give it to her! But only if she deserves it. She treats you like shit? Don’t buy her gifts! Don’t give her more attention than she deserves.
When you give her what she deserves, and give her only what you want, she will begin to be trained just like you want her to be. And she will begin to accept what you give her as normal and not EXPECT to be taken out every night. Once you get her where you want, you will be respected and in a much better position. Don’t just give her what she wants, give her what you want to give her.
Hygeine is extremely important, and can be fixed so easily most of the time!! Here are my suggestions for common problems:
1. Teeth & Breath. This is pretty easy, because toothbrushes cost about $1 each. I party a lot so I almost always carry around an extra toothbrush in my leather jacket. Pretty funny right? Well when I roll over to my girl’s house I have a toothbrush right there with fresh breath and I don’t have to worry.
Hygiene is extremely important, and can be fixed so easily most of the time!! Here are my suggestions for common problems:
1. Teeth & Breath. This is pretty easy, because toothbrushes cost about $1 each. I party a lot so I almost always carry around an extra toothbrush in my leather jacket. Pretty funny right? Well when I roll over to my girl’s house I have a toothbrush right there with fresh breath and I don’t have to worry.
2. Feet. Straight up, I carry extra socks in my bag. I also have 2 pairs of shoes. This is really important because if you only have one, they will start to stink. And it’s so not cool to have a girl complain about your feet smell when you’re making out with her. wow. You have 2 pairs of shoes? It lets on air out before you put your feet back in them for another day of pounding.
3. BO. No one ever told me, but there is Anti-perspirant, and there is Deodorant, and there is Antiperspirant+Deodorant. You need the latter. Anti-perspirant, you will still stink. DO you will still sweat. There is a very specific kind that is both, and I like to get the hard gel so that it doesn’t show up white on my black shirts and it doesn’t get too dry or too wet. That is money.
Wow. It seems like there is a LOT of bad advice going on around. Let me address a few that I’ve heard:
You have to have balls to talk to her and tell her how you really feel. That = Bullshit!!!! Why? She already knows how you feel. You probably already tried to explain it to her and failed, that’s why you’re still broken up. Somehow, you came across as needy because you really “need her” and that actually pushed her farther away. In this case, you’re going to have to fake it for a little while until you can get over being needy before you can start pushing her attraction triggers to actually get her back.
Ignore her. Right, you could ignore her, but most likely she broke up with you. And if she broke up with you, that means she is emotionally feeling not as attracted to you, nor hanging out with you (at least as much as before). If you totally ignore her you are going to look like you are running away from your problems (and you will become very distant from her as well). There is the thought that “if I ignore her, she’ll see how important I was in her life and how much she needs me” but that’s not exactly how it’s going to work. Instead, while you’re sitting around the house thinking about how much she should be thinking about you, she’s probably out playing beer pong with some dudes in jerseys trying to lick her face before they invite her back into their room to watch “Wedding Crashers” then fuck the shit outta her. oops. Guess totally ignoring her didn’t work.
Move On. This is actually the closest to “good” advice that I’ve heard. Yes you could move on, because sometimes break ups are MEANT to happen and they should. But other times, there is just one person in the relationship who’s Dad didn’t teach them enough about women, and it is going to take a little interneting (internet learning) to get up to speed. No need to be embarrassed. You can do something about it now and change it all around, because this is LIFE! Hell yeah. Now go get em!
Hey, thanks for visiting my site. I'm Jonah, and my goal is to help out good guys that somehow found themselves in a bad girlfriend situation. I was there once and completely bounced back. That's what this website is all about.
