Wow.  It seems like there is a LOT of bad advice going on around.  Let me address a few that I’ve heard:

You have to have balls to talk to her and tell her how you really feel. That = Bullshit!!!! Why? She already knows how you feel.  You probably already tried to explain it to her and failed, that’s why you’re still broken up.  Somehow, you came across as needy because you really “need her” and that actually pushed her farther away.  In this case, you’re going to have to fake it for a little while until you can get over being needy before you can start pushing her attraction triggers to actually get her back.

Ignore her. Right, you could ignore her, but most likely she broke up with you.  And if she broke up with you, that means she is emotionally feeling not as attracted to you, nor hanging out with you (at least as much as before).  If you totally ignore her you are going to look like you are running away from your problems (and you will become very distant from her as well).  There is the thought that “if I ignore her, she’ll see how important I was in her life and how much she needs me” but that’s not exactly how it’s going to work.  Instead, while you’re sitting around the house thinking about how much she should be thinking about you, she’s probably out playing beer pong with some dudes in jerseys trying to lick her face before they invite her back into their room to watch “Wedding Crashers” then fuck the shit outta her.  oops.  Guess totally ignoring her didn’t work.

Move On. This is actually the closest to “good” advice that I’ve heard.  Yes you could move on, because sometimes break ups are MEANT to happen and they should.  But other times, there is just one person in the relationship who’s Dad didn’t teach them enough about women, and it is going to take a little interneting (internet learning) to get up to speed. No need to be embarrassed.  You can do something about it now and change it all around, because this is LIFE! Hell yeah.  Now go get em!