Love Lost around the Holidays?

More breakups happen around the holidays than any other time of year.  Maybe it’s the cold weather, or the excitement of something new, new years resolution, or just brain shifting into change mode, but the holidays can bring about breakup faster than santa delivers presents around the world in one night.

If your girlfriend just broke up with you around the holidays, you can bet she probably made an emotional decision based on the pyscological changes associated with the time of year.  It’s also a really hard time to lose one because it’s so cold and there’s not as many hot chicks walking around that you can pick up.  It’s a time to hibernate, and believe me, hot girls hibernate.

So, you gotta get her back, cause lets face it, what sorry sucker wants to sit around the most joyus time of the year lonely?  It would be way harder to land another chick, especially this time of the year, when you could just get the one you had back.  You gotta pull back.  My number one tip?….

#1: Leave her alone.  It’s called “emotional clingyness.”  You need to give the impression that you are higher on the social scale than she is, even if she left you.  It may be very hard to do, you’ll have contradicting feelings, but you have to leave her alone.  Let her call you.  And when she does, don’t be all debby downer.  Have some shit happening in your life that you can tell her about when she asks what you’ve been up to.  It can be WHATEVER as long as it’s not moping around the house and thinking about her all day.

What does this do? It raises your social value and automatically makes her slightly more attracted to you.  Depending on the person this could make a big difference, but regardless this step is a CRUCIAL first in getting your ex back.

Want more tips? Keep reading the blog!

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